To create anything worthwhile takes work.
Changing your life is creating something worthwhile. What you create with the life that has been given you is the greatest creation you can create.
Change is hard, especially if you are focused on the outcome.
Instead, simply figure out something that you can change and then practice making that change. As a practice, you are meant to struggle at first. Like any new skill you are learning, in the beginning, you are figuring it out and then it becomes a part of you.
Commit to practicing for a month and then re-evaluate