When you are finding yourself and finding where you fit in life means that you will also find where you don’t fit.
When you try something and it doesn’t work you have discovered where you don’t fit. Where you don’t fit will help you discover where you do fit.
From this perspective, failure is a good thing. It is one more piece in a big puzzle.
A Lamborghini is going to fail trying to drive offroad. This is great information for figuring out where a Lamborghini is going to excel.
Life is discovery regardless of what is discovered.