To have a new life you need to become a new person.
Being a new person is based on changing your practice. Follow a new practice on a daily basis and you will become a new person.
Create a future where “You can be You” regardless of the outcome.
If my future self is a writer I can practice being that future me by writing on a daily basis. If I follow my practice I am a writer regardless of what the outcome is.
Chose your future self, create a practice, and then evaluate what the outcomes are.